If you are looking for a reverse mortgage to receive some much needed cash, you may want to look into a reverse mortgage wholesale loan. This is the perfect way for you to get a reverse mortgageagencies that sell reverse mortgage wholesale lender accounts. These agencies are the Federal Housing Authority, the Fannie Mae foundation and the Financial Freedom Cash Account.

Liligirl, most of the advice here is good, except for one correction on Ryan’s. There is no program that allows the lender to take the house. The loan is a simple lien on the home, nothing more. If a default occurs (only failure to keep up insurance & taxes or disrepair result in default) it is treated like any other loan, that is foreclosure & sale.
See the HUD and or AARP website for detailed info including pros/cons.
Best of luck and let me know if I can be of any further help. My email is in my profile.

Bad side: You loose your equity in the house. I would try a credit union or a large financial services company like AIG. You can also check with HUD for advice, if your parents qualify.

A reverse mortgage essentially eats away at the owner’s equity (in this case, you’re inlaws). The money they’re getting from the bank is buying them out of their home. The reverse mortgage will diminish any estate they may have wanted to leave for their children. On the other hand, it spares their children of having to come up with expenses while the parents are still living.

Do they have any other options? I would shop around if this is what is decided and ask lots of questions. Don’t sign anything unless you understand it completely.

I dont know anything about this but i just wanted to say that it is too bad they have no other options. Our elderly should not have to worry about mounting expenses to receive care. Im sorry that they and all the family has to go through this.

This product has become ever more popular with the aging society. Because of this these loans are changing almost daily. The downside to this type of loan is your house is appreciating after you lock in the payment rate. So in essense you have two things working against you the bank interest on the money they are giving you and the appreciation of the market. Also be wary of the fee’s and transferability. If your in-laws were to die, in some cases the bank can make a lump payment to the beneficiary and take the house. In other cases you can pay them back at the sale of the house and take the difference. They are somewhat complicated circumstances and you need to look over all the contract details so you have all the right information.

I would consult with your parents financial planner, I guess
they put a lien against the house for whatever was reversed
(which means I would keep records exactly of what was received) and deduct it from the Estate upon your parents
death. Which means they get paid before anyone in
their Will.